Letter to my mother..

Over the years of my existence on the face of this planet, I have never once sat down and utter a proper thank you to the person who laboured and birthed me. A million thank-yous are never sufficient in this lifetime for her. What I certainly lacked in my verbal appreciation, I have and will […]

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What it REALLY feels like to be in your 30s..

You might have already guessed my age if you have read my previous entries so I am not going to bore you anymore with the finer details.. but just for digs, I will divulge that it has been several years since that big dirty thirty birthday has passed. So friends, I celebrated mine with a […]

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Toxic Friendship

The blatant truth is, writing about toxic friendship, is equivalent to treading muddy water. It is nothing but a grey area where people do not wish to broach, much less discuss about. Classify this as a taboo, you may, for it might as well be. After all, friendship is only…a cross between being in a […]

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I was shamed for NOT child- proofing my house..

About a year ago, having moved into our new place, me and my husband graciously and big-heartedly invited a bunch of our friends to progressively, over the weeks, trickled down and grace their presence by checking out our new abode. We were, needless to say, clearly elated. (Bear in mind that this event transpired many […]

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I know you are curious

Hi friends or any random stranger passing by and reading this..you’re a friend too, don’t worry, I’m not fussy. I will probably not have any idea on how you stumble on this but hey, I was born Erni but for the sake of confusing everyone (my mother and my husband included), I like to go […]

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